Recently, my family and I faced a profound loss – my mother passed away on November 2nd after a brief encounter with cancer.
Losing my vibrant, 74-year-old mother, who we never expected to leave us so soon, has been incredibly tough. This experience has been a journey through grief, reflection, and realization. It’s made me question and reassess what's truly important in life.
The Essence of Family and the Lessons Learned
In our final moments with my mom, we didn't dwell on missed meetings or unanswered emails. Instead, we celebrated her life, the immense love she shared, and the impact she had on us. She may not have been expressive in words, but her actions spoke volumes of love.
I recall times as a child when I struggled with asthma. My mom would spend nights with me in an incubator, offering comfort and peace. This memory, among many others, exemplifies the unconditional love and support she provided.
Grief, Gratitude, and Growth
The pandemic added layers of complexity to our grief. My mom’s rheumatoid arthritis, which left her immunocompromised, meant she couldn’t travel. We faced tough times, exacerbated by online attacks and job threats. Yet, my mother remained a source of peace and resilience, her majestic smile and comforting presence being our sanctuary.
A Tribute to Compassionate Healthcare
I want to extend my deepest gratitude to the healthcare providers at Rockyview Hospital. Their compassion and empathy during our family's most challenging time were nothing short of healing. This experience has reinforced my belief in the power of compassionate care and has inspired me to strive to be a better doctor.
The Drive for Healthcare Transformation
This personal loss has reignited my commitment to healthcare advocacy. Our healthcare system, despite the best efforts of individuals, shows gaps that need addressing. From enhancing weekend physiotherapy availability to providing more home-based therapies and interventions, there’s much to improve.
Looking Ahead with Purpose
As I navigate this journey of loss, I am more motivated than ever. My focus is clear – to work towards a healthcare system that is more efficient, effective, and compassionate. I believe in innovative solutions, creative courage, and giving a voice to those at the grassroots level.
In honor of my mother, let's be the change we wish to see. Let's focus on what truly matters and make an impact where we can.
Thank you for being here and for listening to a son's tribute to his mother. Her legacy of love, resilience, and care continues through each of us.
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